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I recently realized, (by that I mean just now) that I haven't talked about confidence, self-assurance, and action.

This has become a part of my life a lot recently, and I had the great idea to mention how it is equally important in getting what you want.

Along with your strong desires you must also have a balance of action within those things. To begin that action you'll need self-assurance in your choices and confidence in what you do.

I know it can be hard to fulfil your desires without being sure of yourself and my advice for that is to practice making small actions. These small actions can include just doing something you're afraid of, trying something new, going places alone, and/ or working towards a hobby/goal.

Things to remember.

  1. Fake it till you make it: The way you act is what you will attract so choose wisely.

  2. No one cares: Everyone is way more focused on themselves than you.

  3. Nobody can tell if your confidence is fake because usually their complaints are a projection of what they lack within themselves.

  4. At the end of the day, YOU are the only one sleeping in the bed you made, so make it a nice one.

The overall point is to have a good balance of action and thought, don't be stuck imagining the life you want to live; instead make a way to experience it firsthand.

See you next week everyone! :)- Arianna

*I do not own the images used in this blog; I just created the collage. *


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